爱。是会传染的

刚刚上了一堂很宝贵的课。去了Counselling conference遇到了上帝派来的贵人。从中得到了说话的权利，被听见的爱。在这当中。因为被认识了缺乏，少有的第一次，有人看到了自己缺点后的缺乏，松了一口气。回头想想，虽然很缺爱。但我已经知道，并释怀，这份爱，不该加罪在爸爸妈妈身上，他们也需要这无限的爱。在缺乏的同时，他们已给了我们那么多。那么那么地多。好心疼，好心疼。如果我可以再选，我也会选择他们，因为他们是最好的。我好感恩。感恩上帝的恩赐。他们所造成的痛，上海，只会提醒我，多心疼啊。他们也是需要被爱的。我的痛，有上帝怜惜，那他们呢？一想，心就好疼。

这次，我真真确确地领悟到，爱，是会传染的。还有，何为，我们所缺乏的爱，不该由凡人，任何人去取代，弥补。唯有上帝无限的爱可弥补。因为想想，父母都那么缺爱了，我们还加罪于他们，那可是多残忍的事啊。多爱父母，并不是给予物质上的享受，而是给予宝贵的时间，陪伴的能力。

我真想，用生命去倾听他人。
谢谢上帝，谢谢耶稣，谢谢王牧师。

爱，真的很重要。

Psychoeducation

Effective psychoeducation.helps build resilience

Faith in Jesus

为什么你信耶稣？
只因为他爱我。

The way God sees us

He sees us all the same. With the same affection, with equal beauty though we might not yet have learnt the beauty of some beyond human's eyes. Hence, we thought, that even God views each individual differently, according to what they are capable of. But, is our just God like that? Hence, even more so, it should be we place our views on people on God, but ought to place God's view of people on us. #Godisjust.

Love

Love is sometimes going beyond your own needs, that's why it is called love

Heaven

This is what I look forward to. A place where all our hearts are pure, all pur acts are free, all our love are genuine and real. Looking forward to enjoy the purity and holiness in the presence of God.

Memory

有些记忆即使十年了，还是那么。犹新。

Worth

There is no reason to let others decide what you are worth.

Psych

Psychology is never meant to change one's mind but to expand one's horizon.

爱情的爱

爱情的爱是什么。
好像到了现在，就是一种就算吵架也不会感到不安的那一种。
好像小小地领悟到为什么每次吵架，他们都会很快地没事。
只因为那份安全感告诉他们。别 浪。费。时。间。

Mental health

An insight from the study of 1Kings 1~3

想象

原本跟随的是一种相像，
后来追寻的是一种感觉。

God's grace

It is by God's grace that I had a good day :)

999 days

?Today I got angry with dad. Because I was worried for him. That he would injure his leg further. Somehow I felt like I am like my parents who get angry and frustrated because their kids r doing stupid things that could so possibly hurt themselves.

I felt so guilty for shouting at him even though it was brief but quickly learn that I am forgiven by my dad. Soon after, we were normal once again. That's family I think. No matter how we step on each others toes we forgive. Because we love the other person, we are willing to bear the cost and forgive, even when the other person might not even apologize. We forgive because we love and we hope that the person would realize and come back to us for reconciliation. I realize, by not coming back, by living out of guilt is not what the family member desire the most. But the reconciliation and the acceptance of the forgiveness that has been readily given is what they truly desire.

It is a tiny glimpse indeed of the heavenly Father's heart.

I might be frustrated at times. Annoyed and what not at other times, but I know I do love my family somewhere deep inside me.

Ps we have dated for 999days! :)

Prayer

I post this on facebook today, saying that,

Whatever happens in life, God's promises remain.

And tonight, my dad, mum and I prayed together for the first time. :')

I was reminded of God's promise that He will save my family. :')

Thank you God! <3

Love

Good company

Sometimes all it takes is company. Quality time with ah  is better than quantity time :)

Honesty and God

Tonight, got to be honest and express my gratitude to people whom I call friends. :)

Relax

Good try :)

今天的心情